Kids at UCSF Day: Promoting Equity for Girls and Boys (formerly Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Day)

Thursday April 24, 2008

Registration is now full.



UCSF staff, faculty, students, postdocs, residents and fellows are invited to bring their children or children in their community who are age 9-13 years old to participate in Kids at UCSF Day: Promoting Equity for Girls and Boys.

The schedule for the day is as follows:

• Free lunch for the children!
• Noon entertainment for children & adults!

The concept of Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Day was created by the Ms. Foundation as a national effort to ameliorate the negative affects of sex role stereotyping on girls. Workplaces that have developed activities and events attempt to address issues confronting adolescent and pre-adolescent girls. Adolescence brings on pressure for girls to be concerned about their appearance rather than their capabilities and skills. Organizers of programs believe that bringing girls to work provides an opportunity for them to see strong role models and participate in activities that foster essential self-esteem.

UCSF has proudly sponsored its own Kids at UCSF Day: Promoting Equity for Girls and Boys program for over 10 years. Although created initially for girls - for the past several years, boys have participated in this exciting and educational day. Early attempts to incorporate boys into programs with girls were unsuccessful, as the children mirrored the same behavior that they exhibit in the classroom. Boys demanded different kinds of attention and our volunteer program planners agreed that the experience of both boys and girls would be enhanced by providing separate programs that address their respective general experiences in society.

What are girls experiencing in their adolescence? Studies show that 54% of girls under age 16 have experienced some form of unwanted sexual attention; 1 in 4 women have been victims of rape or attempted rape and 38% of them were 14, 15, or 16 years old at the time of the assault.  Research on girls aged 8 - 11 reveals that 85% of them have been sexually harassed at school. Between elementary and high school, the percentage of girls in the U.S. who are “happy with the way I am” drops from 60 to 29 percent. Ninety percent of those afflicted by eating disorders are adolescent and young adult women. When girls internalize the messages they receive about how to behave, they may compete for male attention, have eating disorders and become unassertive.

What are boys experiencing? Boys aged 8 - 18 surveyed in one research project spent 40 minutes a day playing computer or video games. The number of violent interactions in a 10-minute play period ranged from 2 to 124. Boys who witness violence learn that violence is an appropriate way of resolving conflict. Recent studies in the United States show that 80% of boys say they tease, harass and sometimes threaten other students. In addition, males cause 86% of all drinking and driving incidents and are 76% of binge drinkers.

Why do we sometimes offer fewer programs for boys? The Center for Gender Equity offers as many programs as we can for both girls and boys. The reason that there are fewer programs for boys is because we are dependent on volunteer program planners. We can only offer as many programs as we have volunteers to provide them. If you believe that there are not enough programs for boys (or girls), please contact us to volunteer.  If you choose, we will help you put together your program ideas. The only other way to create more programs for the boys would be to take programs away from the girls.

What does the boys program constitute? The program for boys changes yearly. Previously content has included playing some games, including:  "What's My Line?" where they ask questions of a panel of men and women in non-traditional occupations (male nurse, female police officer, etc.), to learn to think outside of gender stereotypes with regard to job choices. Men and women program leaders use images of action heroes, popular culture icons, and cartoon characters to discuss with the boys what they think it means to be a man in our society.  Typical discussion questions include: Are men supposed to be considerate, strong and have the courage to stick up for what they know is right? How can boys and men support those who don't fit into stereotypical norms of behavior? Following this 90 minute program, each boy attends a program offered by volunteers from our medical center staff and faculty (the same experience provided for the girls). Evaluations of the program highlight that boys have a fun and enriching experience.

Why do we have separate programs? Girls and boys have dissimilar needs because their experience of growing up is shaped by gender norms. Both are harmed by stereotypical social construction of femininity and masculinity, yet they are affected differently. Generally speaking, girls tend to internalize the effects and hurt themselves. Generally speaking, boys tend to externalize societal pressure and hurt others and themselves. We can support both girls and boys through programs like the Kids at UCSF: Promoting Equity for Girls and Boys where both boys and girls are encouraged achieve more balance - girls are supported for their competence and potential and are encouraged to be assertive, and boys can learn to support each other and learn that violence is not a solution to life's difficulties. Isn't this what we hope for future generations?

Kids at UCSF: Promoting Equity for Girls and Boys is an expansion of Take Our Daughters to Work Day, which was a national program for 10 years. The goal of this program was to offer girls a day of opportunities to increase their self-esteem during a crucial point in their development. In keeping with the original goal, girls will continue to be exposed to career possibilities beyond traditional roles, and they will be encouraged to focus on how they can make their lives fulfilling.